Weekend Getaway: Why You Need One ASAP and How to Make It Happen

Why you need a weekend getaway ASAP and how to make it happen. How taking a break and relaxing will recharge your batteries and make you a better mom. Click to learn more.

A weekend getaway can be a great way to reset

I’ve been in a pretty good mental space over the last couple of months but when the opportunity to go on a weekend getaway with my mom came up, I jumped at it.

We flew to Arizona to help my grandma celebrate her 75th birthday. It was really great to spend the weekend with them, but I had to leave my kids and husband behind. Three days without my kids. Three days of contact only through a pixelated screen. Seriously, thank goodness for technology! I was delightfully surprised to find that I didn’t miss my kids nearly as much as I expected to.

Why you need a weekend getaway ASAP and how to make it happen. How taking a break and relaxing will recharge your batteries and make you a better mom. Click to learn more.

The mom life is hard work

Taking care of your children, while fulfilling and important, is really hard work! You’re on call around the clock and your needs usually fall somewhere behind everyone else’s. Self-doubt, mom guilt, loneliness, and depression are just a few of the things you may begin to feel when you aren’t making time for you.

Taking time off can sometimes be harder than not

I often take time away from the house for writing or meeting up with a friend, but when I first started doing that, it wasn’t easy. I would spend hours debating whether I should call a friend or spend the time alone, whether I should go sit at a coffee shop or go for a walk or try to get a pedicure. I’d build up so many expectations that I would often return from my alone time feeling like I had wasted it or, else, find myself wandering around the grocery store rationalizing it as me-time.

When you give yourself a whole weekend away, you can get over those tendencies to use your alone time on errands without kids (lame!) and start using that time to rejuvenate your spirit, remember what you love to do, and do it!

Why you need a getaway weekend ASAP and how to make it happen. How taking a break and relaxing will recharge your batteries and make you a better mom. Click to learn more.

How To Plan The Perfect Weekend Getaway:

Step 1: Stop planning for it to be perfect

Let it be what it is. Keep your expectations low, but plan to have a good time. Give yourself the freedom to nap (I almost always crash when I have a couple hours of downtime) or to eat what you want when you want or to do nothing at all. Leaving margin in your travel plans allows you to relax and go with the flow, which is exactly what you need, Mama!

Step 2: Be true to where you’re at

If you can’t spend a ton of money on a big getaway, find a way to do it on the cheap so you don’t waste time feeling guilty about it (or worse, pay for it plus interest afterwards!) If you need time away from people, plan a solo or partner trip with someone who fills you up, like your spouse or best friend. There are times to plan around other people and there are times you may need to be totally selfish in order to really relax. Learn to distinguish between the two and be okay with putting yourself first for once.

Step 3: Put the to-do list away!

Plan and prepare for your trip and then put that expectation-inducing-list away for good. Let the weekend roll by. Let yourself relax, agenda-less, for at least a whole day. This time is about decompressing, letting go of responsibilities, and taking care of you and only you, Mama. Just chill.

Why you need a getaway weekend ASAP and how to make it happen. How taking a break and relaxing will recharge your batteries and make you a better mom. Click to learn more.
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Take care of you

Wherever you end up going and whatever you end up doing, make sure it’s something that makes you happy and fulfilled and doesn’t cause you a ton of stress. Some stress is normal when you’re traveling, but don’t let yourself get caught up in the little things. Only you know what makes you most relaxed so, while I can share some ideas, only you can decide what’s best for you.

Why you need a weekend getaway ASAP and how to make it happen. How taking a break and relaxing will recharge your batteries and make you a better mom. Click to learn more.

What’s your ideal getaway weekend?

Need Rest?

Try relaxing at the beach, soaking in the sun. Head to a snowy mountain cabin with a book and lots of firewood. Drive into the city and spend the whole day chilling in a coffee shop or browsing a museum.

Need Purpose?

Join a short-term missions group; see another place and give a little of yourself. Volunteer at an event or ministry where you feel needed and valuable. Visit an elderly family member and spend the weekend doing what they do.

Need A Change of Scenery?

Go camping or hiking. Visit a state or national park (and take loads of pictures to share!). Visit a nature preserve.

Need People?

Visit family far away. Head into a big city, like LA, New York, or Vegas, and get lost in the hustle and bustle of humanity. Take along your best friends and/or your spouse.

Self-care is others-care in disguise

Whatever you do, do it knowing that a little break will make you a better mom. A happy mom can give so much more of herself to her kids and hubby because she has so much more of herself available. Your self-care is directly linked to your ability to care for others, so don’t neglect you, Mama!

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